Tag: Judging (home)

The reserve of modern assertions is sometimes pushed to extremes, in which the fear of being contradicted leads the writer to strip himself of almost all sense and meaning.

permalink source: Winston Churchill
tags: Clarity, Judging

While extremely sensitive as to the slightest approach to slander, you must also guard against an extreme into which some people fall who, in their desire to speak evil of no one, actually uphold and speak well of vice. If you have to do with one who is unquestionably a slanderer, do not excuse him by calling him frank and free-spoken; do not call one who is notoriously vain, liberal and elegant; do not call dangerous levities mere simplicity; do not screen disobedience under the name of zeal; or arrogance, of frankness; or evil intimacy, of friendship. No, my friends, we must never, in our wish to shun slander, foster or flatter vice in others: but we must call evil evil, and sin sin, and so doing we shall serve God's glory.

permalink source: Francois de Sales, Introduction to the Devout Life
tags: Communication, Judging

"If two friends ask you to judge a dispute, don't accept, because you will lose one friend; on the other hand, if two strangers come with the same request, accept because you will gain one friend."

permalink source: Saint Augustine, Roman religious figure and philosopher
tags: Conflict, Judging

A Safe Place To Stand In the days of the westward expansion in north America, when men saw that a prairie fire was coming, what would they do? There was no way for them to outrun it guess the safe route out. The pioneers took a match, burned the grass in a designated area around them, and then they would take their stand in the burned area and be safe from the threatening prairie fire. As the roar of the flames approached, they would not be afraid. Even as the ocean of fire surged around them there was no fear, because fire had already passed over the place where they stood. Jesus said, "I have come to bring fire upon the earth, and how I wish it were already kindled! But I have a baptism to undergo..." There is no escaping the judgment and division (fire) that has come since Jesus' sufferings on the cross (baptism). There is only one safe place to stand and that is where the match of God's judgment has been struck: The foot of the cross.

permalink source: Brett Blair, www.eSermons.com, August 2001.
tags: Heaven, Hell, Salvation, Judging, Cross

If we see a speck in a brother's eye, we must first see if there is a log in our own eye; perhaps that speck in our brother's eye is only a reflection of the beam in our own.

permalink source: David Watson
tags: Judging, Self-awareness

Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.

permalink source: Thomas a Kempis
tags: Grace, Anger, Judging, Self-awareness

All the wrong people are against it, so it must be right.

permalink source: James Carville
tags: Criticism, Decisions, Judging

Charity is a reverent agnosticism towards the complexity of the soul. <i>in other words, we assume the best because we cannot know for sure what is going on in someone's heart</i>

permalink source: G. K. Chesterton
tags: Judging

If one would give me six lines written by the hand of the most honest man, I would find something in them to have him hanged.

permalink source: Cardinal Richelieu
tags: Judging, Privacy